I've come to a point in my life where I am emotionally ready to come to terms with the notion that I may never marry or have children. Now, that's not to say that one has to be married to have children (because adoption is always an option). Anyway, I'm a young African-American woman approaching her mid 30's,in a profession I actually enjoy, homeowner, middle-class with a college education, down-to-earth and personable. I refuse to let life beat me down just because I'm not in a relationship, become one of those women who envies others that are in healthy/happy relationships, or resorts to dating other women when I know deep down I'm not a lesbian or willing to be bisexual for the sake of companionship and intimacy. I have nothing against anyone who lives either lifestyle. But, I simply have to be honest with myself (and others). Therefore, I realize life is too short and this lifetime should be as fulfilling as you can make it WITH or WITHOUT a mate.
So, my quest is to live "happily single" rather than miserable and desperate to be with anyone just to be as part of a couple.I'd love to start a "Single inSaucy" circle of women who are OVER 30 and haven't had the opportunity to start a family and experience motherhood yet. These two components alone sometimes require some emotional support that comes with being around others who actually can relate to you.
Note: This is not a circle I'm trying to start to male bash or have b--ch sessions. I feel that type of energy is draining, disheartening, and just downright toxic. This is simply an informal "support group" (if you will) that would serve to bring together other single women to talk about social issues, the dating scene (and how exhausting,interesting and discouraging it can be at times), meet for happy hour on a Friday when you just need to unwind over a glass of wine, go shopping, discuss books together, spend holidays with (when/if you have no family), and other fun-to-do activities that most women enjoy.
If you're interested in helping me get this off the ground, please respond.
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